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Topic 38 · 133 responses · archived october 2000
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~LauraMM #1
Colin Firth, of course
~Kali #2
By the ratio of posts in this little pool, it sure looks like it, Laura.
~Meggin #3
Colin Firth, of course Ditto!
~JohanneD #4
Darcy, of course
~JohanneD #5
Hold on, I'm not finished :
~Amy #6
What a gifrich envirorment this is.
~elder #7
R E S P E C T (sing it, Aretha!) And Fitzwilliam Darcy would not be rejected, either! :p
~Ann2 #8
That IBM picture is new to me. I am soo grateful, Johanne. I can think of a few lines to go very well with it...like 'You were not leaving I hope?' or 'I must not judge on my own performance !'
~bernhard #9
re: HC's cartoon - Few things are constant. For women who do get flowers sent at every occasion, that becomes too commonplace to mark a truly special event. HOWEVER, for thse of us who count our wedding bouquets as the one time we've been given flowers (in over 14 yeears!), well, you get my point, I think. Somebody please tell DH
~JohanneD #10
As he tried the Virtual Flower Shop ?
~bernhard #11
rest assured, he has not
~Kali #12
While wanting Colin is all well and good, some women desire JEREMY! JEREMY! JEREMY!!!!!!!!!
~Kali #13
God, I'm obnoxious.
~Susan #14
Just dedicated, Kali. Even I must admit this is the best pic of him I've ever seen.
~cassandra #15
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~cassandra #16
As I'm certain dearest, beloved JN knows: The way to handle a woman is to love her, LOVE HER! (Lerner/Lowe) All men could benefit from a closer inspection/understanding of the musical theatre.
~Carolineevans #17
All men could benefit from learning to waltz, too.
~Becks #18
DARCY! DARCY! DARCY! DARCY! DARCY! DARCY! DARCY! DARCY! DARCY! DARCY! DARCY! DARCY! DARCY! DARCY! DARCY! DARCY! DARCY! DARCY! DARCY! DARCY! DARCY! DARCY! DARCY! DARCY! DARCY! DARCY! DARCY! DARCY! DARCY!
~cassandra #19
reg. the waltz-I completely agree. I was CRUSHED when I found out that Clark Gable's romantic, light as a feather waltz with Vivien Leigh in GWTW was largely a camera trick! And for good measure: JEREMY KNIGHTLEY! JEREMY KNIGHTLEY! JEREMY KNIGHTLEY! JEREMY KNIGHTLEY! JEREMY KNIGHTLEY! JEREMY KNIGHTLEY! JEREMY KNIGHTLEY! JEREMY KNIGHTLEY! JEREMY KNIGHTLEY! JEREMY KNIGHTLEY! JEREMY KNIGHTLEY! JEREMY KNIGHTLEY! JEREMY KNIGHTLEY! JEREMY KNIGHTLEY! JEREMY KNIGHTLEY! JEREMY KNIGHTLEY!
~Justagirl #20
Johanne, your pictures are smashing!
~Susan #21
What do women want? Simple: we want men that are like the men who appear in novels written by women!
~elder #22
Susan -- I think you've got it. And then, for good measure, we want the version of those heroes played by actors who seem to have gotten the message.
~Ann2 #23
And we adore men who can do Mr Beveredges(?) Maggot, either Darcy or Knightley style. And be civil to the tongue, and do an occasional hand kiss and wash up and talk about things and listen to and respect a fellow being and if necessary laugh at themselves.
~Kali #24
Go Susan. And yes, knowing Mr. B's Maggot is definitely a plus. Let's avoid the banality of drool...no cut-and-paste junk...it's all a phony trick, just like the revolving platform in the GWTW bazaar scene...;)
~Inko #25
What Jane Austen wanted?? "All I want in a man is someone who rides bravely, dances beautifully, sings with vigor, reads passionately, and whose taste agrees in every point with my own." Sense and Sensibility. On the other hand, "What are men to rocks and mountains? Pride and Prejudice
~elder #26
Inko -- you have challenged us to find other quotations! What an extreme range of choices we have if we only get Marianne's romantic wishes and Lizzy's post-Wickham, pre-Darcy love interest opinions.
~Inko #27
Kathleen, I cheated! I picked up "Jane Austen's Little Advice Book" today, and it's all in there under "Men--Good" and "Men, not that big a deal"!
~elder #28
Inko -- cheating or not, I think those are marvelous quotes. How about what Charlotte Lucas wants: "Without thinking highly either of men or of matrimony, marriage had always been her object."
~Susan #29
Let's avoid the banality of drool...no cut-and-paste junk...it's all a phony trick, just like the revolving platform in the GWTW bazaar scene...;) Kali, you are too cool!
~Cheryl #30
I want to go to Brighton!
~Kali #31
Love ya, Susan... I have to agree with Emma on the whole man thing... --- "I do so wonder, Miss Woodhouse, that you should not be married, or going to be married - so charming as you are." Emma laughed, and replied, "My being charming, Harriet, is not quite enough to induce me to marry; I must find other people charming - one other person, at least. And I am not only not going to be married at present, but I have very little intention of ever marrying at all." "Ah, so you say; but I cannot believe it." "I must see somebody very superior to any one I have seen yet, to be tempted...and I do not wish to see any such person. I would rather not be tempted." ---
~cassandra #32
Dearest Emma is definitely a kindred spirit. My Mother always tells me that it's going to take one helluva man to tame me, live up to my expectations. With much amusement and anticipation, she waits. Indeed, she is going to have a Long wait! In many ways, I fell like Charity in Edith Wharton's Summer. I am SO BORED, BORED, BORED, BORED!!!!!!!!!!! Like Lizzy in P&P2, only the very deepest love will ever induce me into matrimony.
~cassandra #33
What do women want: to be able to respect our partner in life. We want to be proud like Lizzy; "proud that in a cause of compassion and honour, he had been able to get the better of himself."
~Kali #34
That's what our daddies want for us, too, remember...;) --- One more thing: I am Emma!
~cassandra #35
Actually, my father is more like Gerald O'Hara, than Mr Bennet. As for my MOther..... I no longer know who I am. It changes with my mood.
~Amy #36
My dad chuckles to himself sometimes as he reads, as Mr Bennet is shown doing in P&P2. I like them both a lot.
~terry #37
I got a note from a new user, beverly, who says she tried to post a new topic here and it wouldn't let her. The topic is Kevin Costner and here's her text: This is her text: Kevin Costner got a standing ovation on a talk show the other night. He appeals to all women as a perfect husband and caring person. Not only do we love him for his mind, but we also love his appearace. Blonde, tan, hairy, blue eyed, looks good in tights too. Robin Hood is my favorite movie. It was the first movie I saw him star in. The male/female relationship he portrays is sooooo fine. She also looked for an introductions topic here but couldn't find one. Amy, can you help her by posting her topic or allowing her to herself?
~Carolineevans #38
Glad someone else likes Kev's Robin Hood.My personal favourite is "Dances with Wolves".
~Meggin #39
Kevin Costner can paint my toenails anytime!!!
~summit #40
Amy: Amy, can you help her by posting her topic or allowing her to herself? I too have been curious and sorry about not being able to create new topics at this conference, unlike the Austen one. Is there some reason we cannot be allowed to here? It is most awkward. Can we apply for the right or password or... from the couple of you that seem to be permitted to here?
~Amy #41
Wendy, I tried to set up the conference so it would be a little harder to get into -- and so that you have to be registered even to read here. Not much protection for minors, but a little extra trouble. Unfortunately that set up also means no topic creation except for hosts, me and Cheryl. Who else wants to be a host? No duties, except to welcome people and little power except abiltity to create topics and a few other little things.
~summit #42
Amy: Well, it's probably beyond a newbie's skills, but I would not mind helping you & Cheryl (and Terry?Lilian?Myretta?) with host duties. (And if it IS beyond my skills, thanks for thinking of inviting us, anyway, in your kindly above post.) :-)
~summit #43
Oh, and something else women want - http://www.grin.net/~meluchie/firthlist/6aem2.htm
~Susan #44
I thought that was a given! But thanks for the pic. :)
~Amy #45
Amy: Well, it's probably beyond a newbie's skills, but I would not mind helping you & Cheryl (and Terry?Lilian?Myretta?) with host duties. (And if it IS beyond my skills, thanks for thinking of inviting us, anyway, in your kindly above post.) ___ Okay, Wendy. "Pring!" You are a host. Isn't that the sound a fairy's wand is supposed to make? Yes, I only mentioned Cheryl as the other sort of non-technical host. Others who can mess around behind the scenes in here are Myretta, Terry, Joan, and recently, Henry. There is some info on host powers in help. Why don't you read that first, then I will fill you in. You don't have any conf admin or sysadmin rights, so don't be afraid of doing anything wrong. The most destructive thing you are empowered to do is kill a topic.
~LauraMM #46
OOH baby OOH Baby Samooch as Cheryl says Can I have him please??????
~Meggin #47
Can I have him please?????? Yes, but only if you promise to share!!!!
~Kali #48
Oh, Laura! Your inflection on the "ooh baby"'s is all wrong! And the *samooch* is used entirely out of the proper context! Young lady, no more movie boys for you until you learn to "speak properly" (as Katharine Hepburn says in Morning Glory)...! ;)
~Dina #49
"Long, slow, deep, soft, wet kisses that last 3 days" (I think I added some adjectives, but who cares!!) Crash Davis, who can paint my toenails and anything else he feels like painting ANYTIME!!!!
~Kali #50
Wet? EEEWWWWWW!
~mpk #51
COLIN! COLIN! COLIN! COLIN! COLIN! COLIN! COLIN! COLIN! COLIN! COLIN! COLIN! COLIN!
~Opus #52
This is what I want, of course I would be the one in Colin's arms.
~Opus #53
This is what I want, of course I would be the one in Colin's arms.
~Opus #54
oops!
~Opus #55
forget it, check out the picture youself, I'll have to practice my HTML http://www.grin.net/~meluchie/firthlist/aem05.jpg
~Cheryl #56
Let me try that for you dear. ;-)
~candace #57
I personally don't just want to be in his arms...I also want to be in his baahth
~Opus #58
Thanks for the help Cheryl, I have to practice that.
~Kali #59
Oh my.
~Cheryl #60
Candace, you're so baaaad! ;-)
~Mari #61
Suzanne; that does include being slowly twirled around before you sink onto the bed, does it not? I am excessively attentive to all of these details....
~Opus #62
Of course Mari, we can't just stop at being in his arms, the bed is the key element.
~Kali #63
But arms are nice too...
~candace #64
Candace, you're so baaaad! ;-) Takes one to know one, Cheryl my dear ;-)
~cassandra #65
reg. #63: Yes-arms are indeed nice! Such a strong, but tender embrace. And eyes and lips(THE MAN CAN SNOG-none of those sloppy kisses) and that VOICE!!!! And, Words can be just as effective. "So I rode home, anxious for your feeings, keen to be near you. I rode through the rain and I would ride through a lot worse if I could just hear your voice...."
~Kali #66
McGrath has a way with Austen, doesn't he? I actually like some of his variations better...(shock, horror!)
~cassandra #67
The man is a genius, such wit and perception. I am forever grateful. I want him to adopt me.
~Carolineevans #68
The April edition of "Chatelaine" magazine, has an article by one Susie Maloney entitled "A real woman's fantasy". It's not at their on-line site(silly of them) and it's way too long to re-type, even if I had permission, but it's worth reading if you can get that magazine. The fantasy about the tool isle at Canadian Tire with the entire board of directors of General Motors was intriguing, but more so is one that involves Mel Gibson, Brad Pitt, very little clothing,chocolate and a vacuum cleaner. Ring any ells with anyone?
~Kali #69
Fortunately not! ;)
~Susan #70
more so is one that involves Mel Gibson, Brad Pitt, very little clothing,chocolate and a vacuum cleaner. Ring any ells with anyone? Goodness, my own fantasies sound pretty boring next to all that!
~lasalle #71
I think what women want may have somthing to do with shopping.
~Donna #72
Do you think so Carl? Like in Trainspotting,"What ya talkin about"? the guys answer "Football" "What you talkin about"? the girls "Shopping".
~JohanneD #73
Great scene LOL unless Carl meant Shopping around? sound advice :)
~Cheryl #74
UGH! Can't stand shopping myself. Now buying I can get into, but just window shopping? Can't deal with it...
~Mari #75
Vacuums? Did someone say vacuums? Another answer for Henry's questions ''What do women really want?'' - Boots to show off shapely calves (of men, of course). Please refer to the Mark Strong topic for further elucidation.
~Kali #76
Don't want the boots TOO tight, now...cut off circulation, ruin the seat...and the pain!
~Meggin #77
Mari, I think we've got something here---what we really want is men in boots!
~Kali #78
And don't forget the cool waistcoat-vest thingies...and those cravats...those are important too...
~Meggin #79
Okay for: boots on, waistcoat-vest thingies on, but the cravats are off leaving collar cutely flapping (did somebody mention flap?;-0). I'm going for the rakish look!
~Meggin #80
Okay for: boots on, waistcoat-vest thingies on, but the cravats are off leaving collar cutely flapping (did somebody mention flap?;-0). I'm going for the rakish look!
~Meggin #81
I did not post that TWICE!:-(
~Cheryl #82
Margaret: I did not post that TWICE!:-( Yeah, sure Margaret, we know the word "flap" got you excited! ;-)
~Donna #83
I always thought men liked women in "boots". I never thought about women liking men "boots".;-) I like Mr. Darcy when he finishes writing his letter just before he puts out the candle. White shirt and black pants. Mark Strong when he dances near the end of Emma3.
~Mari #84
Have been rewatching Emma3 lately, but went back to P&P today. What do you think I saw? The second "Picard Manoever"; in the piano scene at Pemberly after Lizzy and the Gardiners leave, after Darcy says "What?" sharply, and rises; execution of the manoever as he strides from the room (would not boots have been lovely here?) ;-)
~Mari #85
PS to HC: What this woman would like is a jpg to represent each of our favorite things; DTBT, the Picard Manoever, daggy, the look; ladies, what else should be on this list? We could then use html to truly enchance our correspondence!
~Meggin #86
Cheryl: Yeah, sure Margaret, we know the word "flap" got you excited! ;-) just a wee bit:-) Okay, okay, now I've got it---we want boots, waistcoat-vest thingies, shirts with open collars, flaps, and the K-Tel button repair kit! ;-)
~bernhard #87
and this Thermos. ;)
~Kali #88
I'm dyin' over here, Cheryl.
~summit #89
And filling these items we want a specific pair of fine eyes, caressable dark locks, perfectly chiselled features, taut torso, and... his complete and undivided attention for a private afternoon upstairs at the Ritz. %-)
~Donna #90
the K-Tel button repair kit! ;-) is there such a thing? Meggin,That all sounds fine and dandy,but what buttons to you plan on repairing?
~Carolineevans #91
Donna, she means the ones that we have to put back on so we can rip 'em off again.Fast-fix on, so we can take our time ripping them off. Though, come to think of it, I wouldn't balk at repairing his shirts for him the slow way. And doing the fitting adjustments on other bits of clothing, if required.
~Meggin #92
Meggin,That all sounds fine and dandy, but what buttons to you plan on repairing? Shirt buttons: ping, ping PING, waistcoat-vest thingie buttons: pring, pring, PRING, and pop, POP go the flap buttons! Mental imagery is running amok! ;-) about the button repair kit--there really was such a thing in the early 70's (might have been Popeil brand?). With it, you could re-attach buttons quickly with plastic doohickeys you poked through the fabric with a special tool. It was so stupid in concept that it was a joke! p op
~Kali #93
Men's shirts didn't have buttons back then, did they?...only the vest-thingies...
~Meggin #94
Men's shirts didn't have buttons back then, did they?...only the vest-thingies... Didn't they? I know I saw collar buttons...
~JohanneD #95
Buttons were used in XIe century, and before strings, pins or prickers (crochets were in use
~Susan #96
And what, pray tell, is a pricker?
~Inko #97
Susan, if you're talking about "The Advocate", I took the licensed pricker to be someone licensed by the church (or Inquisition) to prick people to discover whether they are witches - i.e. put needles into them for some reason. I know it had something to do with witchcraft and I'm sure it had to do with the Inquisition. BTW, I loved the little snort/laugh CF gave after the "eating meat on Friday" part!;-)
~JohanneD #98
pricker = piercer, like a pin or needle ; �pinglette in French, fibules used in Roman Empire
~Kali #99
One or two buttons, maybe...but shirts back then were mostly pullover, it seems...and tied at the neck, perhaps buttoned (didn't matter - everyone wore cravates)... My brother has an mid-19th century shirt that he wears with his mountain man garb and his Lakota dance garb, and it has a hook at the neck, and no buttons...
~LKenn #100
Inko - I loved the snort/laugh scene in "The Advocate" as well. "Madness!" There were so many funny scenes it was difficult to stop laughing. How about when the cock crows after the "bedding down" scene with the chamber maid at the Inn? HA!!!
~Carolineevans #101
I loved the pig! She was so innocent and lazy, couldn't possibly have done it! It was this movie, more than any other, that convinced me that Colin should be given the chance to do a proper comedy.
~JohanneD #102
Hear, hear, Caroline, a proper comedy would be great indeed!
~Inko #103
I think Fever Pitch is a proper comedy - a Romantic Comedy!!
~JohanneD #104
Firth + Strong + Comedy = sound very good to me Hope we'll get to see it here ! Pining
~Carolineevans #105
Has anyone made the Jane Austen- Fever-Pitch connection yet? Arsenal are based at Highbury, a small village sixteen miles from London (and now swallowed up by the urban sprawl.)
~Carolineevans #106
I am so glad that someone other than me is NOT watching the Oscars! The only star I looked at tonight was Hale-Bopp!
~JohanneD #107
I did'nt know, thnx Caroline, think MS made the connexion too?
~JohanneD #108
]I am so glad that someone other than me is NOT watching the Oscars! Funny, just about to say the same :) BTW, am curious, anybody knows what's going on at it? Should we join the party with Cheryl at Pemberley?
~Carolineevans #109
Probably! He's a soccer fan as well, I think!
~terry #110
Caroline, you such a naturalist!
~Carolineevans #111
Johanne, I always regret going to the Chat room-Ialways end up being misunderstood by someone! Go though, with my blessing, dearest... I have to sign off soon anyway.
~Carolineevans #112
Naturalist? Oh Gawd, what have I said now, Terry?
~JohanneD #113
Know what you mean Caroline, but you, misunderstood? I'm surprised, maybe we can go together sometimes :)
~Carolineevans #114
Johanne, remember I'm the one who had to ask what the Superbowl was! Stopped the conversation dead for ten minutes! ( I know now though.And I still prefer footie.) Seriously, I've been working five days a week, and no let-up in sight, so it's unlikely I'll have time to chat for a while.
~JohanneD #115
Feel free whenever you want, have to problems with your conversation :) rather enjoy it very much :) BTW Outside knowing it's the big bash of the year, don't know more about the sport myself...
~JohanneD #116
DTBT : have NO problems with your conversation Footie yeah, Aussie rule quite funny to watch too
~Carolineevans #117
Glad we connect, my kindred spirit! But seriously, must go now. Have left you a not with mon petit gar. Bonne nuit!
~Carolineevans #118
NOTE, not NOT! DTBT MYSELF!
~JohanneD #119
Sweet dreams
~kate #120
]And what, pray tell, is a pricker? LOL
~Kali #121
Hale-Bopp is a comet and not a star, is it not? ;)
~JohanneD #122
]]And what, pray tell, is a pricker? ]LOL Not what one would obviously think :) same here, LOL :)
~Carolineevans #123
Yes, Kali, Hale-Bopp is a comet. With two tails,no less.I was out with the Beavers(not the furry, buckteeth ones, but the 5-8year-old male kind) doing my volonteering-to-improve-the-lot-of-mankind bit last night.Some of them found it real hard to visualise it as anything more than a star. But they thought it was cool, and that's what counts, I suppose.
~Kali #124
Indeed...;)
~terry #125
I'm taking a wild guess and saying that Marv Albert will never become a topic in this conference.
~LorieS #126
Women DO want men in toupees, don't they? Or else why are the guys buying them?
~LaughingSky #127
Maybe I'll just hang out in this little space and drool over Richard Gere... Richard Gere...Richard Gere...:)
~Margaret25 #128
I'm drooling along with you, Annette! All I want is Richard, too!!! :-)
~aschuth #129
Saw this and though of you people, and just *couldn't* refrain from posting it... On Women's Fertile Days, Supermacho Guys Look Best June 21, 1999 (Nature) - Many a woman will tell you that her taste for sweet and heavy foods varies according to her menstrual cycle. But now, researchers announce that there could be another preference that varies in line with women's' monthly hormonal fluctuations: their taste in men. Or, to be more precise, their taste in men's faces, say Ian Penton-Voak of the University of St. Andrews, Fife, England, and colleagues. Penton-Voak's group, who last year announced that, on the whole, women prefer more feminine male faces, now report in the June 24 issue of Nature that there are times of the month when they actually prefer masculine Clint Eastwood types over more feminine Leonardo DiCaprio lookalikes. The team questioned British and Japanese women as to which of a series of computer manipulated average Caucasian and Japanese male faces they found attractive. The women seemed to prefer more masculine male faces when they were in the middle of their menstrual cycle and hence most fertile. Just before, during and just after menstruation, on the other hand � that is to say, when they were least likely to conceive � the subjects were drawn to feminine male faces. A control group of women taking the contraceptive pill � who were therefore not influenced by estrogen/progesterone cycling � showed no such fickleness, and stuck by their taste in softer-faced men. Interestingly, the researchers found that this capriciousness was more marked when women were asked to pick the "most attractive face for a short-term sexual relationship." When choosing for a fling, it seems, women opt for hunkier men even though, in other studies, they describe this physical type as less dependable, dishonest and "cold." When they were given the task of choosing Mr. Long Term, however, their preference for "feminized faces" � faces which previous research has shown are associated with better parenting and fidelity � showed more stability. The researchers speculate that whereas females might choose a reliable, but not necessarily genetically optimal primary partner, they might, "when conception is most likely, pursue extra-pair copulations with males with a more masculine appearance" � males who, statistics show, have stronger immune systems. In other words, these cyclic preferences might be � in evolutionary terms, at least � allowing women to get the best of both worlds: a happy home and healthy children to put in it. Copyright 1999 Nature News Service. All rights reserved.
~Allison2 #130
University of St. Andrews, Fife, England Fife...ENGLAND How much credence can we give anyone with such a poor sense of geography!
~Allison2 #131
University of St. Andrews, Fife, England Fife...ENGLAND ??? How much credence can we give anyone with such a poor sense of geography!
~Allison2 #132
Ooops! How did that happen? Must be that time of the month...
~KarenR #133
But that would just be the author of the article for Nature magazine and not the researcher. Did it say he conducted his studies on the golf course? ;-)
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