Possibly nothing to lose, however the pressure to insure that the last time was perfect could, of course, cause it not to be...

Performance anxiety has never been a problem for me.

always wet and willing and satisfied afterwards, huh? lucky, lucky, lucky

It's all in my state of mind. If I'm interested, my body follows my lead...but if I'm not, it's just not going to happen.

lucky. lucky. lucky. . *grin*

gotta say it too, lucky, lucky, lucky!!

Sounds as if you should be sharing more of your horizontal secrets, Autumn... inquiring minds want to know, I want to watch...I meant, I want to know!

Don't know a good thing when I've got it, I guess! What I am so--er--lucky about? (Other than being married to a great guy, yadda yadda yadda). I mean, what exactly is "the problem" we're discussing??

probably we're all envious because you don't have, uh, problems in that area. as for myself, think that would be more than anybody would want to know (I've got a good man, too)

actually I was calling myself 'lucky, lucky, lucky' *grin*

Oh, join the club, girlfriend! (*wink wink*)

cool, I'm like watching and listening in at the same time!!!

nothing beats a few 'stretching' exercises BEFORE you get out of bed in the morning!

okay, sex or a really great workout? (and I love it when you share, Stacey...)

LOL!!

A workout?? Good grief! I'd rather have a pap smear than work out...

i'd rather work out than have one of those!

I have my very own speculum...

you would! gross!!

work out for me....fitness freak n all that

Why do I suspect it's decorated and sitting on your coffee table as an objet d'art?

back to the original question WER... sex of course! Although I'm not opposed to getting a workout in during sex! And for Wolf and Autumn... give me spandex ANYday! I'd even wear a thong before going in for the annual pap!

(actually, it's at work, Autumn...)

Don't tell me you use it for stuffing turkeys....

nope, they're not on the menu

Is it just a conversation-piece?

something like that...

Hey,I'm new so let me catch up on what your topics are on k?

No problem! Welcome, we're glad to have you here!

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Hey Cid, glad to have you here!

sex or philosophy? better yet, sex or the foreknowledge of the time and place of your death?

ignorance is bliss... gimme the raw pleasure!

oh, you're just saying that...

Naaah, I'm with Stacey...some things are best left a mystery.

what the hell good would it do you to know where and when you were going to die? Do you have some irrational hope that you could avert the situation? Or think that you could somehow prepare yourself for what will still essentially be the unknown?

I'd find out how much time I have to live. Last week I had a precognitive dream that I would die tomorrow in a bulky kiddy car....a kiddy car wreck victim....just another fatal statistic. Probably should be my last post, then. Sure didn't want it to end like this. If only you knew how much I loved you all. My cadaver will slobber over the memories. I just wish you could come with me. No I don't. I don't. I do not wish that.

Leplep... please id yourself!

no, not a bulky kiddie car! The horror...I can't watch....*peeking between the fingers*...well, is he dead yet? (and to answer the topic, sex, definately)

not sex defiantly? okay, sex with chocolate flavored massage oil or sex with coffee flavored massage oil? (must say, personally, I would want one flavor on one person, one on the other, and try and make the perfect mochaccino!)

I hate those flavoured massage oils - they remind me of flavoured condoms, at I hate those too. I like the smell and feel of my husband's skin; he has a really rough, hard skin, and it smells warm - wouldn't want to trade that for the smell of coffee (yuk!) or chocolate, it's too artificial.

I second the 'original scent' motion! Gotta love those pheremones!

me, too! nothin' beats that just got outta the shower smell of my hubby, too bad no one has bottled that up and sold it (and i don't mean eau de toilette, either)

Absolutely! We girls are just so practical. They don't even have to bottle the smell either - one can just lure one's man into the shower . . . much more romantic.

or into the brandnew jacuzzi bathtub!!! (i love this new house!)

oh i'm so jealous! it's too easy to lure my man in the shower, well, if we ever make it there ;)

Jacuzzi!!?!?!?! Why in the he�� do you come here at all, Stacey??? I'd never get out again!

less fun when Brandon is out of town... as he is yet again! (lived in this house for 12 days and he's been here 3 1/2 of those.)

Sorry to hear that. What does he do then, that he has to be away so often?

he's an acoustical engineer... that really explains nothing. He has the rare trait (in engineers) that allows him to also be extremely sociable as well as technical. So all the 'business dealings' go much more smoothly with him along... he doesn't have the stigma of 'SALESMAN' but he can relate to people beyond the technical realm. The travel goes in spurts. He will be home for nearly a whole month after this. Last August, he was home 6 1/2 days out of the whole month but last October, he was gone for only 72 hours. *sigh*

Hmm, that's the unfortunate thing about living with a nice person, huh? But it's great that he's so good with people - it's not often that people in that line of work can actually take care of anything un-technical, so it's actually a positive pain in the arse. Luckily Chris is such an old blockhead, no-one ever sends him on conferences or stuff like that. If a conference or talk gets too boring for him, which happens alot, he gets up and walks out. When he has to give a speech, he stands there with a big, ugly, black scowl on his face, frightening people. None of that English diplomacy to be found in him. Once we had these people over; they were boring as hell - Swiss musicians. By about eight he had enough, so he said, 'Come, Skat, let's go to bed, the people want to go home.' And that's exactly what he did!!! No wonder it took him so long to find a wife, the old grump. And it says alot that I was the one who fell in love with him . . . . Ha-ha!!

I'll have to remember that line for future reference!

ha-ha! Perhaps I shouldn't have shared . . .

well, now that all of that is over... sex with your favorite comic book character? or sex with your favorite cartoon character? (and, yes, I know that those can be synonymous...)

Johnny Bravo, HERE I come!

Jumps into his 3d Cherry comic book.

Geez, that's a tough one...I'm torn between Tintin and Speed Racer...

ha-ha!!!

hee-hee!!!